7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
Habit 4
4. Think
Win-Win
Teens can learn to foster the belief that it is possible to
create an atmosphere of Win-Win in every relationship. This habit encourages the
idea that in any given discussion or situation both parties can arrive at a
mutually beneficial solution. Your teen will learn to celebrate the
accomplishments of others instead of being threatened by them. Win-Win is
a belief that everyone can win. It’s both nice and tough all at once. I won’t
step on you, but I won’t be your door mate either. You care about other people
and you want them to succeed. But you also care about yourself, and you want to
succeed as well. Win- Win is abundant. It is the belief that there’s plenty of
success to go around. It’s not either you or me. It’s both of us. It’s not a
matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s more than enough food
for everyone. It’s an all-you –can – eat Buffet.
Win-Win always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising
benefits of thinking Win-Win is the good feeling it brings on . The true test
of whether or not you are thinking win-win or one of the alternatives is how
you feel. Win-Lose and Lose-Win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you
with negative feelings.
Win-Win will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts.
It will give you confidence. Even fill you with light. Think Win-Win or no deal
.
CHOOSE THE RIGHT!!!
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